Cynic45

I'm an Afro/Latino average bodied male, solid but not a gym bunny. I’m currently being reintroduced to the gym. :-0 ! I'm 6'2" and 210 lbs., shaved head and a beard. I'm a 21 yr. HIV survivor who is otherwise relatively healthy.

Average body with good looks( so I've been told by strangers as well as those that know me). Shaved head. Salt & pepper van dyke beard. Moderately hairy body. Brown eyes. Nice smile. I've been told my eyes, lips and legs are 3 of my assets that catch people's attention first.

I'm seeking a male who is secure in who he is and looking to compliment someone not be completed by someone. He’d ideally be between 5'10" and 7'11" tall with a swimmers build - a solid football player's build. A slight belly is ok but looking like you're in the 3rd trimester isn't working. A wicked sense of humor is important just as the ability to discuss current events. The ability to express yourself clearly without being hostile. To have compassion and be passionate. I’m not asking for something I'm not willing to give. I'd like a man who has a slow hand and is on TOP of his game.

I don't think I'm being unreasonable by asking for a sane, emotionally available man who is romantic yet not controlling. Sensual yet playful. Serious but not hostile. Funny but not an insane clown. Intelligent but not a know it all.

He should be able to admit when he is wrong but be gracious when I admit I am. Allow me to be supportive or let me offer assistance when he needs it and do the same when I need it.

He should be able to enjoy silent conversations as well as verbal ones.

He should enjoy pampering as well as being pampered. Can you flirt with the person you're dating? I can. It’s a challenge but its a fun challenge!

He should know the difference between making love, having sex and screwing.....and be able to do all 3!

Let me know if I'm asking for too much or not... Only serious responses, please.