DaRealBrothaJ318

my screen name stands my way of life 100% real i dont sugar coat shyt. I dont label myself dl at all but i dont parade my sexuality in the public, i know how to act in any given situation. IM A GAY MAN BUT I LIVE A VERY PRIVATE LIFE AND I LIKE IT THAT WAY SO PLEASE RESPECT THAT BECAUSE I WAS A BLACK MAN BEFORE I KNEW I WAS A BLACK GAY MAN. Im not 100% masculine nor im 100% fem , I just do me, call it whateva you want when you get to know me. >>>>>>>>>>>> I am very mature, educated,proud,romantic,affectionate, very ambitious, independent REAL MAN that knows what he wants and is currently in the making to be the best. Im not the perfect man and im not trying to be. I SET MY OWN STANDERDS ,NOT SOCIETY's. I DO ME. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I like to chillax at home enjoy peace and quiet , go to me movies - action ,sci fi,adventure,fantasy, porn sometimes/ workout-home gym(yes i do have one) / dance (hip hop, pop and buckin)/ POLITICS a little, READING BOOKS/ RESEARCHING ISSUES IN BLACK AND GAY AMERICA / SPENDING TIME WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS , LISTENING to music - techno,deephouse, jazz, r&b,neo soul, pop ,a few rock songs,gospel / WRITING MUSIC - arrange music for marching bands, AND MAKING DRILLS FOR MARCHING BANDS / collect basketball cards ,PLAY BASKETBALL - with family mostly and Tennis >>>>>>>>>>> i dont travel to meet people unless we dating, im at an event,football game , band/music event,just for my personal fun. if im in yo neck of the woods ill holla at ya ---

Im lookin for a GROWN AZZ MAN of substance to get to know and see what happens, NOT looking for a dry conversationalist, close-minded, judgmental, superficial man. I want some that is ok with meeting and talking in public secluded places (mall, parks,coffee shop,bookstores with books etc). I dont invite people to my home until i see where its going to go. KEEP IT 100 !!!!!!! Im into REAL MEN THAT ARE SECURE WITH THEIR MANHOOD AND SEXUALITY. its ok if u still shy about it just dont be so fuckin paranoid